Tuesday, 17 March 2015

The New Witch Hunt: Banning Christian Volunteers, Hurting Inner City Kids

By: Eric Metaxas.
http://www.breakpoint.org/bpcommentaries/entry/13/26054
If you hear the words “witch hunt,” what’s the first thing that comes to mind? Well, you might think of the Salem witch trials, when mass hysteria gripped colonial Massachusetts in the late seventeenth century and twenty people—most of them women—were executed on charges of being witches. Another five died in prison.
But the era of the witch hunt is far from over. According to Merriam-Webster, a witch hunt is “the act of unfairly looking for and punishing people who are accused of having opinions that are believed to be dangerous or evil.”
And of course, at the top of the dangerous and evil opinion list these days is believing what the Bible says about human sexuality and marriage.
While public shaming and fines against Christian business people and academics have become so commonplace as to be almost non-newsworthy, I do want to share with you a particularly egregious example of the most recent politically correct witch hunt.
Ironically, or, might I say, tragically, this new witch hunt is also in Massachusetts. For the last eleven years, Gordon College, a well-regarded evangelical institution, has sent volunteer student teachers into Lynn, Massachusetts, an old industrial town of 90,000 people about ten miles north of downtown Boston.daily_commentary_09_12_14
Around nineteen percent of Lynn’s racially mixed population lives below the poverty line. And what were these volunteers doing? According to Mary Moore of the Boston Business Journal, they provided “a range of volunteer services—including formal student-teaching help … and mentoring and tutoring programs.” What else did Gordon College do, free of charge, for the city? Well, each year Gordon has been inviting 80 to 100 fourth-graders on campus for a college day and had planned to expand the program this fall to help 500 youngsters from elementary schools in Lynn.
Of course, none of that’s going to happen now. “Why not?” you ask. I’ll tell you—because the witch hunt has come to Gordon College. It’s not that the academically and socially stellar institution has changed anything. It remains a place where all are welcome, as long as everyone abides by its well-established community standards.
Gordon’s “sin,” at least in the eyes of the Lynn city fathers, is that its president, my friend Michael Lindsay, signed a letter requesting that President Obama include a religious exemption in his expected executive order concerning the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, or ENDA for short. ENDA would prohibit discrimination in hiring and employment on the basis of sexual orientation or “gender identity” by employers with at least 15 employees.
Lindsay and Gordon College are simply requesting that the President provide the same religious exemption that was passed by a U.S. Senate bill last year with bipartisan support. By requesting that ENDA not discriminate against them, Gordon is now on the receiving end of a new witch hunt.
The leaders of Lynn, in their wisdom, have ended the volunteer program with the kids, saying in effect: We can’t let those bigots near our school children. As Rod Dreher, writing in The American Conservative says, one school official has said that “Gordon needs to say, ‘I’m sorry for the request in the letter.'” As in, sorry for being true to its Christian faith and heritage.
And just who’s hurt in this latest witch hunt? You got it—the kids of Lynn, Massachusetts.
Friends, if you have not been praying about the assault on religious freedom in this country, today is a great time to start.
And here’s another suggestion: Consider attending the Religious Freedom Summit at Cedarville University with my colleague John Stonestreet and a host of first-rate Christian leaders and thinkers. Learn what you can do to stand up for religious freedom in this country. Come to BreakPoint.org and click on this commentary, and we’ll have all the details for you.

Tuesday, 3 March 2015

Elijah: Intense Faith & Deep Depression

Let's set up the context of Elijah's ministry by looking at God’s people in 870 BC.

1 Kings 16:29-33   "In the thirty-eighth year of Asa king of Judah, Ahab son of Omri became king of Israel, and he reigned in Samaria over Israel twenty-two years. Ahab son of Omri did more evil in the eyes of the Lord than any of those before him. He set up an altar for Baal in the temple of Baal that he built in Samaria. Ahab also made an Asherah pole and did more to arouse the anger of the Lord, the God of Israel, than did all the kings of Israel before him."

Things were not good in that relativism was the order of the day and everyone pursued their own set of values, regardless of how destructive they might be. Into this mix came Elijah, who was very well connected to God and had a reputation for speaking the truth -- which generally meant he was in opposition to the King. For this he was not welcome at the palace.

Several supernatural events happened in Elijah's life, and the climax centred around a showdown with 950 prophets who were, in reality, spiritual charlatans. The essence of the competition revolved around whose god would show up and respond with fire from heaven. Of course only Yahweh does respond, and the results are dramatic. You could even say all consuming, as the water-soaked altar and sacrifice are consumed to the last. Then, as he prophesies the return of the rain, he outruns a horse and chariot! A super-human feat to be sure.

Now comes the turn of events. Queen Jezebel puts a death warrant on Elijah. Following this amazing set of events, he crashes emotionally, spiritually, and physically -- and flees for his life. He is overwhelmed, discourage, suicidal, and convinced he is all alone. Into this time of dark despair, God speaks healing and restoration.

Elijah is supernaturally given food and water for his weakened state and impending journey. He is led out of hiding into a time of spiritual retreat to reconnect with God. He deals with his failings and God renews his sense of purpose. And finally, Elijah is set on a new course where he disciples a prophet (Elisha) for the next generation.

Elijah's dark time -- call it a break down, crash, depression, burn out -- is connected to his genetic make up, personality, and the nature of the activities in which he was engaged. He gets completely overwhelmed and needs time to get in balance. You and I can be in the same place as well. It's not unusual. Recognizing our condition and what needs to happen is part of our mental health.

When we are faced with that sense of hopelessness and despair, we need the following:
Proper Self-care -- eating right and exercise
Proper Activity -- getting out of hiding (connecting with God and others)
Proper Awareness -- knowing what is going on inside and taking responsibility for it
Proper Direction -- having a plan to engage with our goals and include others.

Elijah faced mental health challenges and so do we. For some helpful information go to http://baptist-atlantic.ca/our-convention/departments/public-witness-and-social/ and click on "The Rapha Network".

Tuesday, 24 February 2015

What Ruth Teaches Us About Life

Right now we are in the midst of a series called "Patterns for Living With God." It centres around several Old Testament characters worth knowing. The first story was Gideon -- sorry, no blog post for that. This week is Ruth, and there are some great story lines.

Ruth is a fine example of love and commitment and makes a great movie. In our culture we value individualism, but Ruth demonstrates a desire to benefit and honour the family, at her own expense. We tend to promote self actualization, but she models self-sacrifice. While North America celebres diversity and freedom, Ruth lives under a commitment to follow Naomi's God and live accordingly -- limiting her own choices and self determination.

Ruth's love and commitment is noted in the community and she is regarded as a worthy woman. Not only so, but she attracts the attention of an older man, and has a child with the full knowledge that the baby really belongs to the line of Naomi. Quite a story of being a bridge builder, or redeemer, of a bitter life into one of joy. A story of hope in the midst of despair. And we honour her for it.

In order to fully understand why she does what she does, we must understand some aspects of the culture and their relationship with God. About 1,000 years earlier, Abraham was given a promise. The man had no child, no land, no purpose, and no legacy. God not only gives him all these things (Genesis 12-17) but also includes a promise that having land, an heir, and a legacy are signs of God's faithfulness.

Now Naomi has none of these things and believes God has let her down big time -- even kicked her out of the covenant. Life could not get worse, and she's frustrated. In to this dark time steps Ruth. Through her commitment Naomi has an heir, the land and family name are preserved, and the legacy becomes far bigger than anyone imagined. After all, King David is born of this line!

So much more could be said about the story, but my question for us is this: Will we love the people of the world so much that we self-sacrifce and build bridges so they can be redeemed? Will we consider the spiritual needs of those around us to be significant enough that their well-being overrides my own?

Read Romans 1:14-16 and Ephesians 1:1-14. It speaks of our inheritance in Christ and the need to include others.

What I Don't Understand About Fifty Shades of Grey

This is an abridged post shared from Craig Gross. Link to full post is at the bottom.

When Fifty Shades of Grey came out, I heard about it but never opened the book. I never even skimmed it. I have friends who have and have filled me in. I thought it was a fantasy book about a guy with some crazy desires for some violent sex. I was blown away to learn it sold 100 million copies, and when the movie grossed $260 million worldwide this weekend, I became even more fascinated.

So I went to see the movie. I went with my wife, to the noon showing at the mall by our house. It was packed. I can’t believe how many people were seeing this movie on a Wednesday afternoon.

So what’d I think?
I didn’t hate the movie.
I did hate Christian Grey.

I didn’t walk out or picket, but I watched the whole movie because I wanted to better understand why this has resonated with so many. Why is Christian Grey someone that women are cheering on and fantasizing about?

As I write this, the movie finished two hours ago, and I’m still upset over what I just saw. Not some young woman being tied up, but Christian Grey himself. Let me explain.

- Marriage only works when both sides give and both sides take, and sex is the same way. Men and women have needs and desires, and marriage and the marriage bed is a place to have those fulfilled. If you are with someone and they don’t take into consideration your needs and only demand things from you, then get the heck out of that relationship if you’re dating. If you’re married, then head to a counselor.

- Most people who abuse others were abused as children. The best available research suggest that 75% or more of those who commit acts of sexual or physical abuse against others were themselves abused as children. Christian Grey was abused as a child, a horrendous act that he never got over or dealt with or talked with anyone about. This has led him to some serious walls that have gone up in his life. And the only way he knows how to deal with it is to abuse someone else. He has done this to over 15 women and will continue. I heard this story was about sex, but this story at its core is about a broken man and his inability to love and be loved. How do people reading this book or watching this movie not see this? This is not a love story. This is not even an erotic story. This is a story of broken people continuing a cycle of dysfunction in their lives rather than dealing with their issues.

- The Bible says I have the right to do anything, but not everything is beneficial. I am not against being playful or doing things to spice up things in your bedroom, but the question I always have is why? Why do you think you need that? If both people agree to try different things in the bedroom, I am all for that. Christian Grey, on the other hand, is dealing with his pain by inflicting pain onto someone else who is visibility uncomfortable with it. He has trouble at work one day, so he sends Anastasia to the “play room” to take out his frustrations on her. If your partner is asking you to do something or try something new in the bedroom, my advice to you would be to ask why. The reason behind the ask is the deeper issue than the act itself. In a lot of cases it might just be a fun thing – or it might be a case like Christian Grey where he wants to avoid dealing with his own pain.

Many people won’t understand this, but because I’ve seen the inner workings of the adult industry, this movie didn’t turn me on – it made me mad. The sex shown in the movie is violent and not love-making, and I don’t understand how 100 million people can read this book and think there is anything sexy about Mr. Christian Grey. If he was broke, ugly, and had a hard drive of porn instead of a “playroom” in his house, every women reading this would be freaked out enough to stay away from him forever. The books and movie have painted a sick disturbed man as a sex symbol that many, many women have gone crazy over.

If you haven’t seen the movie or read the books, don’t. Instead of wasting that time examining this unhealthy dynamic, spend those hours talking with your spouse about sex. Talk about what you desire, what you think is missing. What your history with sex was. How you missed or messed up or abused sex prior to marriage. Talk about your expectations for sex and whether they’re being met or not. Don’t know how to start those conversations? We have a course called bestsexlifenow.com; watch the first video for free, and I assure you it will lead to so many productive conversations. Maybe even fifty of them.

God Bless,



Monday, 14 April 2014

Responding to the Ousting of Mozilla’s CEO

By Jim Daly.
This is the kind of news story that will make you shake your head at where we are as a culture.
The co-founder of Firefox maker Mozilla, Brendan Eich, is a “thoughtful, nerdy, humble guy” (according to a homosexual San Francisco-based journalist) – the type of man you would want to run a technology company. He created the JavaScript programming language and uses his smarts and influence to advance the principles of individual freedom and an open Internet.
However, to his peril, Eich also supports traditional marriage. In 2008, he donated $1,000 to California’s Proposition 8, which defined marriage as the union of a man and a woman.
His relatively small donation was enough to mobilize staffers in his own company to publicly condemn Eich being named as the CEO of Mozilla Corporation. They took to social media to voice their displeasure. Others joined them, such as online dating site OkCupid.
The pressure led Brendan Eich to resign yesterday.
Eich’s departure led actor and gay-rights activist George Takei to post on his immensely popular Facebook page that Mozilla staffers “can now work in a hate-free zone.”
That’s quite the powerful accusation – that merely holding the view that marriage should be defined as a union between a man and a woman can create an environment of “hate.”
Indeed, that word – hate – gets thrown around a lot when it comes to those of us who hold to a view of natural marriage.
Nevermind that Eich never discussed his support of one-man, one-woman marriage while in his professional role. On the contrary, Eich has said he’s always “kept my personal beliefs out of it [Mozilla].”
Mr. Eich even sponsors a project that helps minorities, including those who are LGBTQ, get training and support.
Maybe that’s why Mozilla Executive Chairwoman Mitchell Baker is quoted as saying she “never saw any kind of behavior or attitude from him that was not in line with Mozilla’s values of inclusiveness.”
And yet, Eich is accused of hatred and gets ousted from the company he helped start simply because he supports natural marriage.
It’s enough to make a reasonable person’s head spin.
Even influential author and blogger Andrew Sullivan, who is openly gay, is recoiling at how Eich has been treated. In a blog post, Sullivan writes, “The whole episode disgusts me – as it should disgust anyone interested in a tolerant and diverse society.”
Sullivan also quotes a reader who disagrees with Eich over gay marriage, but who gets the bigger issues at hand: “There’s no freedom of speech if you can’t be employed while holding your opinion.”
Yet this is where we are.
Sullivan and others coming to Eich's defense are right. It's wrong and ridiculous. It's reverse discrimination. It's social bullying, pure and simple. I'm reminded of the title of that off-beat comedy from another era:
"It's a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World."
Indeed it is.
Let me ask this:
Is it not reasonable for those who support same-sex marriage to extend to us the same level of tolerance they expect from us?
I certainly think it is.
https://community.focusonthefamily.com

Drink - The Enright Files

We live in a culture that's awash in drink - enjoying, romanticizing and marketing the pleasures of alcohol. But countless millions of people have lost their families, their health and their dignity to alcohol. Michael Enright talks to two authors who have written about the bottle and the damage done: Ann Dowsett Johnston, author ofDrink: The Intimate Relationship Between Women and Alcohol, and Olivia Laing, author of The Trip to Echo Spring: Why Writers Drink.
Detail from the book http://www.cbc.ca/ideas/episodes/2014/04/07/the-enright-files---drink/

Monday, 31 March 2014

Ask, Seek, Knock

Jesus’ Relationships                 Matthew 7:1-20

Sermon notes for Sunday, March 30, 2014

1 Relationships…
To our brother or sister, in whose eye we may discern a splinter, and whom we have a responsibility to help, not judge.
Matthew 7:1-5
2 Relationships…
To a group of offensive people who are offended by Jesus.
Matthew 7:6
3 Relationships…
To our heavenly Father who gives good things to those who ask him.
Matthew 7:7-11
4 Relationships…
To everyone in general—the Golden Rule should guide our attitude and behaviour.
Matthew 7:12
5 Relationships…
To those on the journey with us in following Jesus.
Matthew 7:13-14
6 Relationships…
To false prophets whom we are to recognize and of whom we are to be aware.
Matthew 7:15-20
7 Relationships…
To Jesus our Lord whose teaching we are committed to heed and obey.
Matthew 7:21-27

Memory Verse: Week Six
Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened..  Matthew 7:7-8
Living in 3D
  1. Discover His Will
  2. Declare Your Faith
  3. Desire His Activity
This Week:
  1. Read and reflect.
  2. Think about your strained relationships with others. Where do you need to behave differently?
Think about your relationship with Jesus. Where do you need to seek him more diligently?

Tuesday, 25 March 2014

Seek First the Kingdom

Jesus Ambition                    Matthew 6:19-34


Message by Rev. Dr. Myles Krueger
The Treasurers of Heaven
Are our Treasures important in Eternal Life? 
Seek First the Kingdom
a)      Matthew 6:1-18  Jesus speaks of our "Public Life": 
                Giving, Praying, Fasting
a)      Matthew 6:19-24 Jesus speaks of our "Private Life" 
Jesus teaches us about “alternatives” from which to choose:
        a)    two treasures
        b)    two bodily conditions
        c)    two masters
        d)    two pre-occupations

What is Our Value System?
Our attitude toward buying, giving and use of our investments.
Response of Believers:
a)      Tax Return evaluations?
b)      "Do we give substantially? 
c)       "Prosperity Preachers": a by-gone era?
Jesus does not rebuke having high incomes and wealth: 
Summation:
a)      Jesus' warning: see Matthew 19:24 "eye of the needle”
b)      Paul's Teaching: 1 Timothy 6:10
c)       "Saving for a rainy day", "Life Insurance" are not forbidden!
The Sermon on the 'Mount' has a focus
a)      Jesus is concerned with our "Heart's Motivation" and then watches us
b)      Heaven: will Jesus be concerned with what we accomplish materially?
c)       How does Jesus look upon you with His heart?
Memory Verse: Week Five
Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Matthew 6:33
This Week:

  1. Read and reflect.
  2. Think about your heart motivation when it comes to trusting God with your resources.
  3. How do you view treasures?

Jesus' Self-portrait

From Henri Nouwen


Jesus says, “Blessed are the poor, the gentle, those who mourn, those who hunger and thirst for uprightness, the merciful, the pure in heart, the peacemakers, and those who are persecuted in the cause of uprightness” (Matthew 5:3-10). These words offer us a self-portrait of Jesus. Jesus is the Blessed One. And the face of the Blessed One shows poverty, gentleness, grief, hunger, and thirst for uprightness, mercy, purity of heart, a desire to make peace, and the signs of persecution. The whole message of the Gospel is this: Become like Jesus. We have his self-portrait. When we keep that in front of our eyes, we will soon learn what it means to follow Jesus and become like him.

When You Pray

Jesus Piety                                 Matthew 6:1-18

 Jesus is committed to, and earnest about spiritual disciplines.
Authentic piety is not external only, but reflects the secret things of the heart.
“Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.” Matthew 6:1

When you give to the needy…
Self-consciousness deteriorates into self-righteousness.
Is the benefit for the giver or the person receiving the gift?
Seeing the need relieved satisfies the love that prompted the gift.

When you pray…
Behind piety can lurk pride.
We are to love prayer for the opportunity it affords us to enter into the presence of the one we love.
“There is a place of quiet rest near to the heart of God.”
 “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” Matthew6:14-15

When you fast…
Fasting exemplifies self-denial and self-discipline.
Penitence
Seeking direction or blessing
Self-control
Refocus on justice and charity
 “And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” Matthew 6:4, 6, 18

Pharisaic piety is ostentatious, motivated by vanity and rewarded by people.
Christian piety is secret, motivated by humility and rewarded by God.
Become so conscious of God that we cease to be self-conscious.

Memory Verse: Week Three

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 5:18
This Week:

  1. Read and reflect.
  2. Think about your giving, praying, or fasting, and ask the Holy Spirit for a change in your ‘performance’.
  3. Be quietly righteous.

Saturday, 15 March 2014

Jesus, the Blessed one

Jesus is the Blessed One. The word benediction, which is the Latin form for the word blessing, means “to say (dicere) good things (bene).” Jesus is the Blessed One because God has spoken good things of him. Most clearly we see God’s blessing after Jesus has been baptised in the river Jordan, when “suddenly there was a voice from heaven, ‘This is my Son, the Beloved; my favour rest on him’” (Matthew 3:16-17). With this blessing Jesus starts his public ministry. And all of that ministry makes known to us that this blessing is not only for Jesus but also for all who follow him.

Bread for the Journey: A Daybook of Wisdom and Faith. ©1997 by Henri J. M. Nouwen.

Monday, 10 March 2014

But I Say to You

Jesus Righteousness: Matthew 5:17-48

March 9, 2014
What is Jesus’ attitude toward the Law?
Does he question its authority, or only its interpretation?
What are we required to obey—if anything?

 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.” Matthew 5:17

The scribes and Pharisees sought to restrict the commands of the law, and extend their permissions, to suit their convenience.
Jesus explains the true meaning of the moral law with all its uncomfortable implications.

 “For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” Matthew 5:20
 “You have heard that it was said...” Matthew 5:21
Anger
Lust
Divorce
Oaths
Retaliation
Enemies
But I say to you…

“Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:29-30

Memory Verse: Week Three
For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished.   Matthew 5:18
Intentional Bible Reading
  1. Pronounce It
  2. Picture It
  3. Probe It
  4. Paraphrase It
  5. Personalize It 
This Week:
  1. Read and reflect.
  2. Pick one issue and ask the Holy Spirit for a change in your righteousness.
  3. Be an example of perfection.

Reflecting Jesus by looking into The Sermon on the Mount

You will recognize them by how they live. Matthew 7:20

Blessed Are You

Jesus Character & Influence: Matthew 5:1-16

March 2, 2014

Who are the people of the beatitudes?
What qualities are they to have?
What are the blessings promised?
The beatitudes are eight fundamental emotional attributes that are a formula for personal and societal health.

Ø  The Poor in Spirit
Ø  Those Who Mourn
Ø  The Meek
Ø  Those Who Hunger & Thirst for Righteousness
Ø  The Merciful
Ø  The Pure in Heart
Ø  The Peacemakers
Ø  The Persecuted

Salt of the Earth & Light of the World
Our influence depends upon our character.
We bring blessing on ourselves.
We bring salvation to others.
We bring glory to God.
As followers of Jesus, by how we live we are commissioned to stop the spread of evil and promote the spread of truth.
Memory Verse: Week Two
Let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.   Matthew 5:16
Intentional Bible Reading
  1. Pronounce It
  2. Picture It
  3. Probe It
  4. Paraphrase It
  5. Personalize It
This Week:
  1. Read and reflect.
  2. Pick one thing and ask the Holy Spirit for a change in your character.
  3. Be an influence for righteousness.

Reflecting Jesus by looking into The Sermon on the Mount

You will recognize them by how they live. Matthew 7:20

Thursday, 6 March 2014

Reflecting Jesus series: Overview Insert from February 23

Reflecting Jesus:
          You will recognize them by how they live. Matthew 7:20

Matthew 5-7: The Sermon on the Mount
“From that time Jesus began to preach, saying, ‘Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.’” (Matthew 4:17) “He went throughout all Galilee, teaching in their synagogues and proclaiming the good news of the kingdom.” (Matthew 4:23)  The Sermon on the Mount is to be seen in this context.  It portrays repentance and right living.  That is, it describes what human life and human community look like when they come under the gracious rule of God.  The followers of Jesus are to be different—different  from both the nominal church and the secular world, different from both the religious and the irreligious.                                           – John  Stott

Jesus’ Self- Portrait
Jesus says, “Blessed are the poor, the gentle, those who mourn, those who hunger and thirst for uprightness, the merciful, the pure in heart, the peacemakers, and those who are persecuted in the cause of uprightness” (Matthew 5:3-10). These words offer us a self-portrait of Jesus. Jesus is the Blessed One (because God has spoken good things of him). And the face of the Blessed One shows poverty, gentleness, grief, hunger, and thirst for uprightness, mercy, purity of heart, a desire to make peace, and the signs of persecution. The whole message of the Gospel is this: Become like Jesus. We have his self-portrait. When we keep that in front of our eyes, we will soon learn what it means to follow Jesus and become like him.                                                                                                                  – Henri Nouwen

1.       Messiah Self-portrait             Jesus’ Manifesto
2.       Blessed Are You                        Jesus’ Character & Influence
3.       But I Say to You                        Jesus’ Righteousness
4.       When You Pray                         Jesus’ Piety
5.       Seek First the Kingdom          Jesus’ Ambition
6.       Ask—Seek—Knock                  Jesus’ Relationships
7.       One Who Has Authority        Jesus’ Commitment
8.       You Will Recognize Them      Jesus’ Reflection
REINFORCEMENTS TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE:
HEAR: I’ll listen to all 8 messages in the Sermon on the Mount series.
READ: I’ll read Matthew chapters 5 through 7 every week.
ü  Sunday                 5:1-16
ü  Monday               5:17-32
ü  Tuesday               5:33-48
ü  Wednesday        6:1-18
ü  Thursday             6:19-34
ü  Friday                    7:1-20
ü  Saturday              7:21-29
HOST:* I’ll invite a few friends to form a group with me.
DISCUSS: I’ll meet weekly with a small group (home, work, or campus).
REMEMBER: I’ll carry the weekly memory verse with me.

DO: I’ll practice the action steps Pastor Vernon gives us.

Sermon on the Mount Reflections 1of12

Periodically throughout our study of Matthew 5-7, I will post some reflections from Henri Nouwen. Her is the first.

Expecting a Surprise


Each day holds a surprise. But only if we expect it can we see, hear, or feel it when it comes to us. Let’s not be afraid to receive each day’s surprise, whether it comes to us as sorrow or as joy. It will open a new place in our hearts, a place where we can welcome new friends and celebrate more fully our shared humanity.
Bread for the Journey: A Daybook of Wisdom and Faith. ©1997 by Henri J. M. Nouwen.

Wednesday, 12 February 2014

Love Talk Starters for Valentines

Love Talk Starters for Valentines
Spark a Great Conversation with your Valentine
Copyright Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott

Love Talk Starters for Valentines
www.LesAndLeslie.com

Maybe you’re all dressed up and sitting across from your sweetie at a fancy restaurant. Or maybe you’ve opted for the stay-at-home romantic dinner you’ve made together. Whatever your Valentine scenario, we’ve produced this little resource to help you have a great conversation.

Questions to Explore Together

What follows are a variety of simple conversation starters – so don’t treat this as an assignment to get through. Simply pluck out a few questions that intrigue you most. And begin your love talk.

• What’s the first Valentine’s Day you can remember as a child? What was it like and how did you feel?
• If Hollywood made a movie about our relationship, what would they call it and who would play each of us?
• When you think about us, what makes you smile the most and why?
• What’s the most romantic movie or book you’re ever read and why?
• If you were to finish this sentence, what would you say: I feel most in love with you when…
• When we met for the very first time, what were your immediate impressions?
• What would you like to dream about in your sleep tonight?
• What can I do for you, in practical terms,that would make you feel cared for this week?
• If we had to spend $10,000 tonight on anything that wasn’t practical or predictable, what would it be?
• Where do you think we’ll be and what do you think we’ll be doing on Valentine’s Day ten years from now?

Sharing a romantic evening with your Valentine has far more to do with a conversation that joins your hearts together than with a box of chocolates or a bouquet of flowers. And we hope these questions are helpful to you in doing just that.

Valentine’s Day Fun Facts to Talk About

The following facts can spark more conversation. Who doesn’t like to be in the know on stuff like this, right? And if you’re clever you can turn these facts into questions to test your Valentine smarts. For example, with the first fact you can ask your sweetheart who purchases more valentines, men or women? And if you’re in a true game show mood, get your partner to wager a few kisses on their answer.

• Women purchase 85% of all valentines.
• Richard Cadbury invented the first Valentine’s Day candy box in the late 1800s.
• About 8 billion candy hearts will be produced this year; that’s enough candy to stretch from Rome, Italy to Valentine, Arizona 20 times and back again.
• Worldwide, over 50 million roses are given for Valentine’s Day each year.
• In Medieval times, girls ate unusual foods on St. Valentine’s Day to make them dream of their future husband.
• Nearly 150 million cards are exchanged each Valentine’s Day.
• In order of popularity, Valentine’s Day cards are given to teachers, children, mothers, wives, and pets.
• Valentine, Nebraska (yes, it really exists) has a special “Cupid’s Mailbox” that forward your cards with a special Valentine’s stamp.
• The Italian city of Verona, where Shakespeare’s lovers Romeo and Juliet lived, receives about 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet every Valentine’s Day.
• Waffle House, Chick-fil-A, and Pizza Hut often take reservations on Valentine’s Day. In fact, some Pizza Huts sell “proposal packages” for $10K that include a videographer, limo service and a fireworks show. Oh, and a pizza.

Just for Laughs

Sometimes a little laughter is just the ticket for sparking more romance. So with that in mind, you may want to share some of these goofy (read “cheesy”) jokes with each other. Cringing is permissible.

A woman was taking a nap on Valentine’s Day afternoon. After she awoke, she told her husband, “I just dreamed that you gave me a gorgeous and expensive diamond necklace for Valentine’s Day! What do you think it means?”
“You’ll know tonight,” he said.
That evening, her husband came home with a small package for her. Thrilled, she opened it and found a book titled “The Meaning of Dreams.”

Two antennae met on a roof, fell in love, and got married. Their wedding ceremony wasn’t fancy. The reception, however, was excellent.

Q: What is a vampire’s sweetheart called?
A: His ghoul-friend.

Q: Why did the banana go out with the prune?
A: Because it couldn’t get a date.

“If someone says ‘I love you’ and you don’t feel the same way, just say ‘I love YouTube’ really fast.” – Will Ferrell

Knock, Knock!
Who’s there?
Olive.
Olive who?
Olive you!

Cupid is Stupid

We hope your Valentine’s Day is everything you imagined, but if you’re like most couples, you’ll probably find a bit of a gap between your expectations for romance and your romantic reality. That’s okay. Just don’t let Cupid get in the way of your love life. How? By living in the moment rather than in a fantasy world that creates irrational expectations. That’s how.

With every good wish and prayer,


Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott

Monday, 9 December 2013

Fwd: Is Santa a Woman?

I saw this humorous post and thought I should pass it along.
Is Santa A Woman?
I think Santa Claus is a woman....
I hate to be the one to defy sacred myth, but I believe he's a she. Think about it. Christmas is a big, organized, warm, fuzzy, nurturing social deal, and I have a tough time believing a guy could possibly pull it all off!
For starters, the vast majority of men don't even think about selecting gifts until Christmas Eve. It's as if they are all frozen in some kind of Ebenezerian Time Warp until 3 p.m. on Dec. 24th, when they - with amazing calm - call other errant men and plan for a last-minute shopping spree.
Once at the mall, they always seem surprised to find only Ronco products, socket wrench sets, and mood rings left on the shelves. (You might think this would send them into a fit of panic and guilt, but my husband tells me it's an enormous relief because it lessens the 11th hour decision-making burden.)
On this count alone, I'm convinced Santa is a woman. Surely, if he were a man, everyone in the universe would wake up Christmas morning to find a rotating musical Chia Pet under the tree, still in the bag.
Another problem for a he-Santa would be getting there. First of all, there would be no reindeer because they would all be dead, gutted and strapped on to the rear bumper of the sleigh amid wide-eyed, desperate claims that buck season had been extended. Blitzen's rack would already be on the way to the taxidermist.
Even if the male Santa DID have reindeer, he'd still have transportation problems because he would inevitably get lost up there in the snow and clouds and then refuse to stop and ask for directions. Add to this the fact that there would be unavoidable delays in the chimney, where the Mike Holmes-like Santa would stop to inspect and re-point bricks in the flue. He would also need to check on carbon monoxide fumes in every gas fireplace, and get under every Christmas tree that is crooked to straighten it to a perfectly upright 90-degree angle.
Other reasons why Santa can't possibly be a man: - Men can't pack a bag. - Men would rather be dead than caught wearing red velvet. - Men would feel their masculinity is threatened...having to be seen with all those elves. - Men don't answer their mail. - Men would refuse to allow their physique to be described even in jest as anything remotely resembling a "bowlful of jelly." - Men aren't interested in stockings unless somebody's wearing them. - Finally, being responsible for Christmas would require a commitment.
I can buy the fact that other mythical holiday characters are men......... Father Time shows up once a year unshaven and looking ominous. Definite guy. Cupid flies around carrying weapons. Uncle Sam is a politician who likes to point fingers. Any one of these individuals could pass the testosterone screening test. But not St. Nick. Not a chance.
As long as we have each other, good will, peace on earth, faith and Nat King Cole's version of "The Christmas Song," it probably makes little difference what gender Santa is. I just wish she'd quit dressing like a guy!!!

Tuesday, 12 November 2013

Remembrance Day 2013

This is a day for remembering — remembering those who sacrifice their own security and safety to secure our freedom.  It is a day to remember that life is precious — that all of us are valuable — that we need each other — that we are called to be a people who look out for one another.  We want the best for the other person, and let me remind you that it is not that way in some parts of the world.

The reason we need a day for remembering is because sometimes our memories fail us.  We either loose touch with the reason behind the day, or we forget to uphold the truths, rights, and freedoms secured for us by those who went before us. We live in a land of hope and promise, and we take that for granted.

Hope can be described as a light shining in the darkness — a touch point that leads the way out of despair — encourages us on our journey — keeps us on track for the right outcomes.  When life gets difficult, we hold onto hope.  When accidents happen, we have hope that our medical teams will come to the rescue.  When the fires burn, we have hope the firefighters will extinguish the flames.  When disaster strikes, we have hope in the first responders to protect us.  And when enemies threaten us, we have hope that our troops will protect us.

As this is the year to honour our Korean War veterans, we think back to June 1950.  As the army from North Korea invaded the south, we heard the cry, “I hope someone will come to our rescue.”   We did, and the rescued people held onto a renewed hope.  While war is messy and creates other issues while solving some issues, Canadian troops have been a sign of hope to millions around the world.

1 John 3:16-18      We know what real love is because Jesus laid down his life for us. So we also ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. If someone has resources to help and sees a brother or sister in need but shows no compassion—how can God’s love be in that person? Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions.

You first responders and military of our society are the ones who lay down your lives for us, and we thank you deeply.  We encourage you in your task of serving and protecting our community.  You bring hope to troubled times.

This is a day for hope.  We hope that wars will cease to the ends of the earth.  We hope that we will continue to live in freedom.  We hope that there will always be someone to defend us when necessary.  We hope that any new conflict will end quickly.  We hope our own families will be able to get along.

We also hope that our health-care system will be there for us.  We hope that our environment hold out.  We hope that the sex-trade children in Thailand will have a better life.  We hope that factory workers in India will have a safe workplace.  We hope that the victims in the Philippines will get relief help.  And in true Canadian fashion, we need to take seriously how we can help these things happen.  We can be providers of hope in troubled times.

But, our hope must have a secure foundation in order to be real hope.  King David wrote:
Some nations boast of their chariots and horses,
    but we boast in the name of the Lord our God.      Psalm 20:7

The prophet Isaiah commented:
Even youths will become weak and tired,
    and young men will fall in exhaustion.
But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength.
    They will soar high on wings like eagles.
They will run and not grow weary.
    They will walk and not faint.     Isaiah 40:30-31

When all else fails, and life seems to crumble around us...  When you are standing alone with nothing else on which to hold, nothing else in which to hope, you need something secure.

Again, Isaiah writes:
So the Lord is patiently waiting
    so he can show you his love and compassion.
For the Lord is a faithful God.
    Blessed are those who wait for his help.
Isaiah 30:18

I am always reminded of the mission of Jesus, who at the beginning of his ministry, quoted these words:
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,
    for he has anointed me to bring Good News to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim that captives will be released,
    that the blind will see,
that the oppressed will be set free,
    and that the time of the Lord’s favor has come.
Luke 4:18-19

Remembrance day should spur us on to love and good deeds – to be the kind of people who bring hope into a troubled world.

I will end with a prayer from apostle Paul:
2 Thessalonians 2:16-17     Now may our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal comfort and a wonderful hope, comfort you and strengthen you in every good thing you do and say.